In a chat with Encomium, Charly Boy said his encounter with Jesus become the freakiest moment of his lifestyles:
What have you ever been as much as currently?
I have been as much as all types. It's miles in no way a stupid moment with me. My complete life is set including value to people i'm opportuned to satisfy. Adding price to my environment and just locating a manner to be beneficial no longer just to myself however my circle of relatives and my environment. So, I quite a lot live busy all of the time and if it is a stupid moment, I create matters for me to do.
You’ve been so arguable on social media these days, what inspired it?
I assume lots, this is my process. I'm a journalist. I talk about all of the things that have an effect on me, that affect my cherished one, things that affect other human beings. So, i have always been talking in view that I have become Charly Boy. I've usually had critiques approximately somethings taking place. First, i'm a journalist and i maintain telling you that before something else. So, I write plenty. I am a social commentator of some type. My activity is to call the attention to the matters which might be terrific and to react once I see the matters that are not properly in any respect.
Are you able to inform us about your come across with Jesus?
My come across with Jesus became the freakiest moment, and if you examine the piece I wrote, it's far simply announcing that God certainly needs us to be real however the Nigeria notion about Jesus and the way it works is simply too Nigerian for my liking. They look at Jesus/God as babalawo or the pastors make a few sacrifices and produce a few money and goats and all the problems will disappear. It doesn’t show up like that and nowadays humans are not going to church to nurture their spirituality. As an alternative, it's far either they're seeking out infants, spouse or husband or merchandising. It's miles all about the wrong motives for being a Christian.
So, God turned into just telling me that in most of those churches they don’t have whatever to do with Christ or God. They are there for enterprise. I was wondering what does Jesus want from me? Is it for me to heighten my campaign for the hopeless, the downtrodden, humans who've been consumed by way of this wickedness inside the u . S .. There are quite a few excellent folks who are losing their niceties due to the fact they don’t recognize what else to do. They are just hopeless.
Hopelessness is striking over their head. They're annoyed, stressed and they need to live desirable due to the fact they have been born right but they may be losing their goodness due to the conflict of survival. Like a young woman, who has been introduced up in a humble and decent home but due to the fact she is seeking out a activity that isn't there and her parents can't come up with the money for to attend to her anymore, she is industrious and no person to help. Sooner or later, she motels to prostitution, while below normal instances, she wouldn’t cross that path however it is just out of desperation. So, those are the souls i am hoping to seize before they pass completely horrific. This is what the surroundings has became out to be.
Are you able to please inform us the things Jesus advised you to prevent doing?
All the ones contrived stuff that Charly Boy did and not me as Mr. Oputa, they were outgrown. So, i have left them for different folks who want to preserve the madness.
Looking at the price of marriage breakup commonly inside the enjoyment enterprise, what is going to you say about it?
It's miles an unfortunate thing. I am saddened approximately it, mainly with my son, the one in the united states. He's 39 and there may be this Nigerian girl that he's dating. As i was hoping he's going to get married ultimately only for him to turn round and ask me, should he be married, i used to be like what are you talking approximately and he commenced telling me that he does not apprehend this marriage component. Why can’t he just have a settlement with the female, maybe we live for four years, then if we need to retain they would renew the contract in preference to for higher for worse. That he doesn’t recognize it.
That still gave me a motive of concern. Marriage isn't a bed of roses. It's miles for humans who have foremost admire for each different and need to live in a marriage. Marriage is a lot of work and that i nevertheless want all my kids to get married the traditional manner, field themselves to preserve that dedication for all time. I discovered that the average youth marriage, specifically in Nigeria doesn’t remaining greater than years. This is loopy and terrible. I volunteered as normal, no longer due to the fact i'm an expert or because I came with a few enjoy, i have been married before my gift one that is working out. I have been married thrice before however they didn’t exercise session. Now, I suppose i used to be immature at that point but now i am in a higher role to at least communicate to more youthful humans and percentage my very own revel in. Maybe there is something they are able to analyze from it or something that i'm able to study from what they're going through.
How did you find out the wedding councellor part of you?
It has usually been there but not for the general public. I'm a teacher of a few sort. I have been coaching all of my life, specifically as Charly Boy. Many of these massive artistes handed via the Charly Boy show. A lot of these younger human beings surpassed thru the Charly Boy university. I have mentored thousands and hundreds of human beings. Due to me and the manner I live my existence, they had been emboldened to chase their own desires and by no means give up.
How have you been capable of preserve your marriage in spite of the tales of controversies?
It’s because I really want to stay married to that individual and that character desires to live married to me. So, it must be two people who want to stay marred. Controversy is contrived. Charly Boy is Charly Boy. Charly Boy doesn’t stay in our residence, Charly Boy doesn’t come domestic. My kids know Charly Boy however they recognize Mr. Oputa as their father. This is the huge distinction.
Charly Boy is an image, he is a character, he isn't always who i'm. I am Mr. Oputa but sure it isn't always each artiste which can strictly outline and separate their picture from what they simply are. To a few humans, it may get so puzzling that they don’t recognize if they're genuinely that photo or they are somebody else. I'm on top of my sport and this is the difference among a individual, an picture or a personality.
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